When you says "relationship" do you mean you mean that 1) you can refuse anything that God has planned? 2) That you can manipulate or change Gods will or plan with your prayers
Relationship has to be in proper order...the order between God and man is creator and creature...King and subject...Lord and servant...it is not a co equal relationship...do you agree?
It is an awesome, priceless, infinite honor to be a Love-slave to My Lord and King.
HE IS THE ONE WHO LIFTS ME UP AND SAYS--BE MY FRIEND; BE MY BRIDE; BE MY JOINT HEIR.
I suppose you could refuse such a relationship. You could insist that you still prefer to clean out the septic tank and scrub the toilets instead of dance with Him.
I'd think it exceedingly insulting to Almighty God to do so, however. . . . not to mention pretty high on the stupid scale, too.