It is an awesome, priceless, infinite honor to be a Love-slave to My Lord and King.
HE IS THE ONE WHO LIFTS ME UP AND SAYS--BE MY FRIEND; BE MY BRIDE; BE MY JOINT HEIR.
I suppose you could refuse such a relationship. You could insist that you still prefer to clean out the septic tank and scrub the toilets instead of dance with Him.
I'd think it exceedingly insulting to Almighty God to do so, however. . . . not to mention pretty high on the stupid scale, too.
If you could your will would be stronger than His grace..then you would be God
The bottom line is for most of us ..it never occurred to us to refuse..because bring in His presence and His grace made us desire him more than anything...that is why He is God:>)