In general it depends on the sect and the believer. There are a lot of fire and brimstone folks out there, Christianity has more than any other religion I've encountered. The Sunday morning TV crowd doesn't seem to be able to complete a sentence without mentioning the fires of Hell.
As for whether I'm interested in that kind of relationship: not any more. Been there, done that, didn't like it, ain't going back. Maybe it's because I'm an only child from a single parent household whose mom worked night for a while, but self suficiency is really my thing. At least on the spiritual level I go through life kind of like Caine in Kung Fu, walking the earth alone solving problems where I can. That's how I'm comfortable.
Then I will pray that G-d makes you uncomfortable. I think you would be a fantastic addition to the Banquet.
Shalom.