[af_vet_1981]

To whom, in your mind does the ‘her’ refer to?

The Church

• 18 And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.
• 19 And I will give unto thee the keys of the kingdom of heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.

• 15 Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.
• 16 But if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.
• 17 And if he shall neglect to hear them, tell it unto the church: but if he neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as an heathen man and a publican.
• 18 Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.

[MHGinTN]

Lots of words, bottom line you think it refers to your chosen ORG. Therein is the flaw in your religious reasoning.

[Mark17]

To whom, in your mind does the ‘her’ refer to?

The Church

We will have to define “church,” cuz I think we have different opinions of what the “church” means. For that matter, we need to define what we mean by “Jesus Christ.” I keep saying, it’s not enough to have faith in Jesus. We must have faith in the RIGHT Jesus.
The second set of verses you left there, have NOTHING to do with ANYTHING except church discipline. That’s all it refers to. Nothing more, nothing less.