The Bible tells us that hell is eternal. It doesn't mean the punishment is eternal, what would be the use of that from a merciful and just God? It means the decision is eternal. My grandfather, a wonderful guy, believed that everyone will go to heaven . . . eventually. Even Satan! This is called the "reconciliation doctrine". Of course, it's nonsense and anti-Biblical.
Hell won't be a physical burning - (we won't have bodies after all). It will be mental and just as terrifying. People will remember all of the terrible things they have done to others and there will be no forgiveness for it. It all belongs to the sinner.
Revelation 20:9 indicates there will be a finality to the sinners and their punishment. And over time they will be forgotten.
I started to read a book that had an interesting premise - that EVERYONE will be in the presence of God after they die. (He is omin-present!) But - for the reasons you stated, being in the presence of God for the unforgiven sinner will be like standing in the flames of His presence like the stories of the Old Testament.
Your words intrigued me: Revelation 20:9 indicates there will be a finality to the sinners and their punishment. And over time they will be forgotten.
When reading Revelation 20:9 I don't see your point but would like to. Can you elaborate please.
Revelation 20:9, NIV: "They marched across the breadth of the earth and surrounded the camp of God's people, the city he loves. But fire came down from heaven and devoured them."