Such a kind and thoughtful post.
God Bless You.
I had a blood relative of mine treat me with such cold indifference Thursday, that I am going to revise my will and remove her. She was one of only 2 heirs. I put her in the will so as to not “play favorites” and hurt her feelings. Her brother my nephew is the only one who really should have been in the will, but no, I had to be fair and equal , and now will pay to revise it to what it should have been.
Her continued coldness towards me culminated in bringing me to tears last night ( she refused to make any time for me to see her baby son while she was 2 miles away at her parents this week)....and I am not giving half my worldly lifelong hard earned money to someone who treats me with cold narcissistic indifference. Her brother my nephew is wonderful to me and actually loves me and will be my sole heir.
I will donate a good sum to dog and horse rescues as well.
Here’s my new rule, you make Auntie cry for 2 days, you are out of the will.
She will not know about it until I am in a better world with my Savior who knows the pain of rejection and betrayal.
Half a million dollars... ooops! She almost had it!
I am a Christian not a doormat
Was still holding back tears at work today . My boss noticed and asked if I was OK.
Didn’t sleep last night either.
Broken heart, realizing all the cold behavior over the years was not my being too sensitive , she really doesn’t care at all. My only niece.
Oh well. I will never again ask to see my great nephew , her son , who is now a year old. She is no longer special to me. I don’t cry easily . She broke my heart. Narcissists are cold self centered jerks.
thank you for reading my rant
I will forgive her, although she is so wrapped up in her fabulousness, she doesn’t even know she hurt me so consistantly and then really obviously yesterday.
Forgiveness yes, being a chump, no.
Have a Merry Christmas
I understand fairly nearly completely
The next generations don’t know what won’t come to them because of their selfishness
I’ll be your niece, only I’m a dude. ;-D
I funded a business startup almost a year ago and made my daughter and niece 1/3 partners with me. All of a sudden about a month ago the niece just quit talking to me. Won’t respond to emails or texts from me. Didn’t follow through on any of the business things she was supposed to do. I made the decision last night to remove her from the business. Our yearly renewals are all coming up which means more money out of my pocket. I said I’m not spending one more dime and allowing her to treat me this way. Yes, it hurts but I feel okay about my decision.
I’ll pray that Father Christmas visits your cousin
this year and melts her icy indifference.
You can always direct your nephew to
be on watch for a change of heart and to set aside
something special for her or your great nephew in that case.
Meanwhile, like our father in heaven watches
for our return to Him be ready to kill the fatted calf
and throw a party.
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