So you dont think Joseph was also chosen? Who do you suppose put the notion into Josephs head whilst he slept that it was ok to take Mary as his wife? Its not possible that they mutually agreed on abstinence? It has to be that Joseph couldnt keep his pants up and Mary was just denying him his marital rights?
You never answered me as to why this belief seems to get your panties in a serious wad. Why do you care so much? Why cant it just be that scripture is silent on the issue because it doesnt really matter in the whole scheme of Salvation and we should all be free to believe what we wish?
You are the one saying they are in a wad.
Perhaps believing such unbelievable stuff put forward from Rome has clouded your ability to navigate the logic of human nature.
Shouldn't ROME be answering this?