Chapter and verse please, Mrs. Don-o?
Not seeing that is like the Footprint Scene in Godzilla 1998 (worth a click) where the "worm guy" can't see the footprint because it's all around him: he's standing in the middle of it.
The rest is Natural Law Philosophy, for which you can find libraries full. It recognizes that normal, natural human sexuality is in itself a created good. Therefore to directly intend and choose to disable a healthy system is unethical, for the same reason that sex reassignment surgery is unethical: it is acting directly against a natural good.
And who said it was a good? Surely God.
And explicitly defining what that means, in terms of the sanctity of sex, is a development of doctrine which has been there since Genesis, and was embraced by all Christians until-- comparatively speaking --- 15 minutes ago.
God said, “Go forth and multiply.”