If you think it is so difficult, why bother about it? No one here is trying to convert you.
I find it perplexing. And un_Biblical. I read of Jesus and think on His life and it seems He was able to break down barriers (thinking of the Samaritan woman at the well here) and talk to any body freely including prostitutes and tax collectors.
I might ask you why bother to post to me if you find me disagreeable?