Eccl. 9:5 but the dead do not know anything, nor have they any longer a reward, for their memory is forgotten.
When Lazarus died, Jesus referred to it as a sleep. When he came back to life there was no mention of "Why did you do that?" "I was in Heaven, dude!". Nothing.
Recall the scene when Saul consulted the witch of endor to bring Samuel from the spirit realm to bless him ... didn’t get a dinner, er blessing.