Discuss the issues, do not make it personal.
Mindreading is making it personal.
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Just a point of inquiry - in the post you deleted, I asked that other poster two questions, and also had a sentence in there saying essentially that I did not want to continue any discussions with another man who was calling me "sweetheart", and "pouty" in his posts to me (post 81 & 139), as I found that to be very weird. How is that mindreading?
Correction to my post 170 - I meant to refer to post 81 & post 130.