The organist at my church sets off my Gaydar, but he has a wife and 3 daughters. I got to know him, so I pretty certain he isn’t a closeted one.
I've met some like that too. In any case, I have no ill will toward any, and am particularly grateful that they bring glory to God in their own way. In fact, were it not for our noses being constantly rubbed in the details of their lifestyle, it's reasonable to believe in live and let live.