You'd much rather have a NORMAL Jewish girl be turned into an unresponsive, frigid wife?
Ok; but it makes no sense to me.
You think Joseph importuned this consecrated virgin for sex when she was the human equivalent of the Ark of the Covenant --- overswhadowed and imregnated by the power of the Holy Spirit --- the Kecharitomene--- the dwelling place of the Almighty --- and even moreso, she was his mother?
You think he would dare approach her that way? No. He was a reverent man. A good man A pious Jew. A mensch. A Tzadik.
You are very much mistaken.