The most recent Protestant service that I attended was to go with my MIL to her Methodist service on Easter Sunday with my husband and our children. The minister (a woman in sensible shoes) did not mention the word Jesus one time nor the resurrection. This was on Easter Sunday!
Opps, I lied. I went with my son to the Old South Church and the woman leading the service had a homily about a same sex young man abused by his partner and how we should welcome him into our lives. OK. I’m all about that. But then after the service the bread remaining on the altar was raided by her son who ate it all. Seriously creepy. So send me to a service where Jesus is totally loved and lifted up.
If there is a woman pastor the church is not in accord with the Word. Problem number one right there.
Try the Lutheran Church Missouri Synod (Not the ELCA) You might be surprised
What happens to the leftover wine than the Mass attenders fail to consume?