I think you've got a little quandary there, CM. What do you think about the situation where a loving Jesus has to judge people who have rejected Him and The Father, and send them to remorseful torment and agony for ever? Ignore it?
Those who go to remorseful torment and agony CHOSE Satan's company over God's. That was their God-given free will in operation. God WANTS His children with Him forever in heaven...but free will allows them to choose Satan's company instead.