Herein lies (one of) the central differences between Reformed/Calvinist theology and the rest of Christianity. The "T" of the T.U.L.I.P. Many things have been written about it pro and con for me though it's untenable simply because it disallows for any cooperation between God and man.
It's "funny" how every person who is "saved" under this system also knows for certain they are saved and not that they are fooling themselves.
No one can know they are "saved" by reasoning on their own. Have to be told they are saved. But all who are saved, and know it, believe in the complete lack of man to know God (the T of the T.U.L.I.P). Somehow they just "know", but it's not because of any idea or realization they have had, even a thought "helped" by God isn't allowed (because that would be "synergism").
After all, again, men cannot know God by any idea of their own or any idea or thought that is even inspired or aided by God, but still has human effort behind it too (again the T of the T.U.L.I.P or really at this point we're talking about "monergism") They just "know". Sure is lucky for them.
But maybe all I've written is the product of a "totally depraved" mind. Who knows. Maybe it is, or maybe not. Who can ever know for certain? Know for certain that "A" is Truth and "B" is not after all, the mind is "totally depraved" without God. Seems to me a totally depraved mind could believe a whole host of errors and not even know it. May even claim what are actually errors are "what the Bible says". Never would be able to tell though "what the Bible says" (and doesn't say) with a totally depraved mind. Except for of course self serving arguments like "total depravity is abrogated when one is saved, so from then on, one can understand Scripture". Deus ex machina anyone?
Just seems all too "neat" to me. And maybe a bit circular too. But I haven't been "saved" yet (according to some) so I guess there's hope.
The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God:That's subjective, but Paul says it happens. It is an objectively true fact about the Christian experience, that we will experience subjective confirmation of our relationship with God.
(Romans 8:16)