Posted on 07/23/2015 5:45:42 AM PDT by Gamecock
Has anyone ever said something unkind to you or about you? I think we all have had that experience. Becoming victims of slander or malicious gossip can be difficult to bear. However, God calls us to exhibit a very specific kind of response in such circumstances.
Years ago, I received a letter from a friend who is a pastor at a church in California. In it, the pastor included a copy of an article that had appeared in the Los Angeles Times. Although the article included a photo of him standing in his church and holding his Bible, it was basically a vicious personal attack against him.
When I saw that picture and read that article, I felt a great deal of empathy for my friend because I had recently had a similar experience. A person I believed was my friend made some very unkind statements about me publicly, and word had gotten back to me. My feelings basically vacillated between despondency and anger, even though I knew I needed to respond with joy (Matt. 5:1112).
I believe the greatest book ever written about the virtue of love in the Christian life is Jonathan Edwards classic Charity and Its Fruits. In this book, Edwards included a chapter on how we are to respond to false charges. There, he makes the biblical point that such attacks should not surprise us; rather, we should expect them:
Men that have their spirits heated and enraged and rising in bitter resentment when they are injured act as if they thought some strange thing had happened to them. Whereas they are very foolish in so thinking for it is no strange thing at all but only what was to be expected in a world like this. They therefore do not act wisely that allow their spirits to be ruffled by the injuries they suffer.
Edwards point is that if the Christian expects to be slandered and keeps his eyes focused on God when it happens, he will not be depressed over it.
Edwards reinforces the concept that other human beings can harm only my worldly pleasure. A person can injure my body, steal my money, or even destroy my reputation. However, all of these things have to do only with the cares and pleasures of this world. But we have an inheritance that is laid up in heaven, a treasure no one can steal or defile (1 Peter 1:4). It is protected by the Lord Himself.
We might be tempted to think that Edwards was a spiritual giant who could handle personal attacks with ease, while we are ordinary believers. How, then, can we not be distressed when we are hurt by people we thought were our friends? Yet while it is true that it is part of our human nature to respond to personal attacks with sadness, anger, or bitterness, these feelings are part of our fallen humanity. They are not fruits of the Holy Spirit. This means that Edwards, as great a saint as he was, was not calling ordinary Christians to do anything extraordinary. We are all called to bear our injuries with joy, patience, love, and gentleness.
This kind of response is required of all of us because the Christian life is about the imitation of Christ (1 Cor. 11:1). We are being molded into His image, so we are to strive to live as He lived. Our Lord was slandered and falsely accused of all kinds of offenses, but He opened not His mouth in protest (Isa. 53:7). Like a lamb, He accepted these vitriolic attacks, and, in the very moment of His passion, He prayed for the forgiveness of those who were attacking Him (Luke 23:34). This is how we are called to react to our enemies (1 Peter 4:13). Therefore, every false accusation, every slander, every ill word spoken about me is an opportunity for me to grow in my sanctification.
Edwards helped me see that I had allowed my soul to become distressed, and that was sin. Instead of seeing the attack on me as an occasion to imitate Christ and to grow in my sanctification, I had resisted Gods Spirit, who had brought this painful event into my life for my edification, that I might remember where my treasure is.
The key to responding to attacks and insults as Christ would is to nurture love for God. Edwards writes:
As love to God prevails, it tends to set persons above human injuries, in this sense, that the more they love God the more they will place all their happiness in him. They will look to God as their all and seek their happiness in portion in his favor, and thus not in the allotments of his providence alone. The more they love God, the less they set their hearts on their worldly interests, which are all that their enemies can touch.
We need to keep Edwards insight in mind as we deal with the inevitable attacks and insults that come our way in this life.
Dennis Prager makes the point that there is a difference between the macro and the micro here. (And, this is of course, my interpretation of Mr. Prager’s thoughts.)
The micro is our family, friends, neighbors and coworkers. The macro is not. Much of the exhortations in the Bible apply to the micro and not necessarily to the macro.
Interesting line of thought.
The problem with your quote is that Jesus never told them to USE the sword. When Peter used his sword, Jesus told him to put it away.
Because of common sense, 2 against 22. He knew that he had to die as God’s plan and no reason to get his disciples killed too. If you think the disciple lived by the sword you might want to look again.
“If you are truly humble nothing will touch you, neither praise nor disgrace, because you know what you are. ... God is truly humble”
-Blessed Teresa of Calcutta (Mother Teresa) (1910-1997)
I think that a meaningful distinction can be made between an attack by an individual and an attack by a cohesive group. Next consideration is the intensity of the attack; i.e. a slap on the face is one thing coming at one with an ax is another.
Remember 793, Lindisfarne!
....”Telling them you will pray for them drives them nuts”...
I don’t think they care and will frequently just blow it off. It’s seen as avoiding the issue at hand...
I generally block the tone and words not addressing the issue....so i can hear what they really might be saying. Often there’s no substance...in that case i might walk away.
...”By speaking Truth with love”...
That would depend on ones defining love...and the circumstances of the encounter.
Whatever you do.....no bashing!
When confronted by insults and personal attacks by non-Christians, a Christian should pray to God for the complete and absolute destruction of the attacker - pray that God destroys him or her in exactly the same manner He did Saul of Tarsus. Completely destroy the old man and turn him into the greatest evangelist that the Church has known. That is how we should pray for our enemies.
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