This is true; but how many of those guys ACTIVELY sought out another woman?
Do you mean like David? Other that that very famous case, I don’t know - and neither do you! I just know I didn’t ACTIVELY seek out my second wife. In fact, had I known of the heartache that was to come I would have run away. You seem to be making the same assumption most others do; that in order to have such a relationship one must be a lecherous womanizer. If that were true, how would you explain the woman I met in Southern Oregon who had two husbands? It does work both ways, you know. One of her husbands was killed in an auto accident and her other husband comforted her through a very trying time.
Everybody acts as if this were something that never really happens, that it’s a subject from some porn magazine. My experience wasn’t anything like that. We loved each other. It may be that you couldn’t live like that and that’s alright, but we - the three of us - had a lot of very serious discussions before we moved in together... and yes, we did pray about it too.
And for those who claim being nagged by one wife is more than enough, let me point out that through some trick of nature, their periods became synchronized after a few months. We used to joke about PMS in stereo. I didn’t laugh.