Romans 9.
I just listened to Andrew Scourby reading the entire chapter. If you have a point to make from Romans 9, do so.
In 2Peter3:3-5 Peter refers to 'willingly ignorant' ... try to make sense of that sentence without 'they' having no choice but to ignore.
You might want to look at when God states Jacob have I loved and Esau have I hated. It is not in Genesis, it is in Malachi, posted after more than a thousand years after the boys descendants works are accounted.