I've never met a Catholic who knew let alone agreed on all Catholic doctrine.
A Catholic woman I used to work with said her "Priest" told her that she could think of God as female if she wanted.
Catholicism, 500,000 denominations all under one roof.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/daqwGRdRIsk?feature=player_detailpage
In all probability, God sports neither a penis nor a vagina...to establish a sex attributed to God is nonsense....we refer to God the Father so that humanity can have some conception of God as someone we can relate to. An ond, bearded white man on a throne with a bunch of angels floating aronnd is, of course, an artists conception of God. The priest, of course, should have used better judgement....but thinking of God as a female is no worse nor better that thinking of God as an old white guy.