In your mind; what would be ANATHAMA?
That which is anathema (the proper spelling by the way, and I’m not sure why you have a semicolon after the word “mind”) is not what determines what is or is not anathema. God, his teachings, the Bible, and the doctrines of my Church determine what is anathema. Your opining that what is anathema is akin to situational ethics, which isn’t too far removed from Protestantism theory that everyone can figure out God’s lesson’s without help.
In post #430, what I mean to say is that what is anathema is not what I think it is. It’s determined outside of me.