A former Catholic expresses concern about your eternal destiny and you take that as an attack?
Sure. How would you look at it if some Catholic or other Christian told you that you need to change your faith to be like his? I’m very happy with my Catholic faith - always have been. I have never seen any need to tell you or anyone else to follow my lead.
I’m really tired of the Catholic-bashers that seem to proliferate at each full moon. It’s annoying and more than slightly mental.