You left out where, between putting all the children to bed and providing sex, you have to watch tv for a couple of hours. Otherwise you “never want to do anything with him.”
Like sitting in front of the tube is *doing something together*......
I don't think that it occurs to men to continue treating their wives after marriage the way they did before, to catch them.
I guess they figure that once they have them, they don't have to work at the relationship any more.
Married women still want to be romanced and chased. That doesn't change with the wedding ring.
If men went to the trouble of keeping up that kind of relationship, I daresay, they'd find a warmer welcome in bed.