It takes two.
Men are equally responsible for a marriage gone bad.
I continually hear men whine about their wives and blame-shifting to them, but men aren't perfect either and they need to work at the relationship as well.
It's not a one sided thing where the woman does all the heavy lifting to maintain the relationship and the man comes home, eats a already made meal, sits around on the computer or in front of the TV, while the wife is finishing cleaning up after dinner, getting the kids ready for bed, making sure everything is ready to go for tomorrow, and then the guy wonders why she's not interested in hopping in the sack when HE wants it.
Women can and do get burned out raising their kids and the male she married that acts just like one.
A man's job is not done when he comes home from work, any more that a woman's job is done at 6.
Kind of a broad brush you paint there. Are there men that are that way of course... but to say ALL men are that way.. I know plenty of guys who work AND do housework too! I do myself, mostly because I get home before she does...
Though I know of a couple women that want it FAR more than the men.. its def the minority.
You left out where, between putting all the children to bed and providing sex, you have to watch tv for a couple of hours. Otherwise you “never want to do anything with him.”