This seems to be the presentation that she gives:
http://www.newmanconnection.com/institute/courses/rich-gift-of-love/the-rich-gift-of-love-part-i
No, we wouldn't want this mad woman providing instruction in Catholic high schools. Sheesh.
On the plus side, maybe this controversy will drive traffic to her site. I wouldn't have been listening to her presentation otherwise. I'll have my teenage kids listen to it, too. It's a great resource.
I've been listening to a few of the presentations at the link (thank you), and it appears that the one that is "offensive" is Masculinity & Femininity: Difference & Gift Part IV where she talks about the controversy in question.
If this was the same talk she gave at the school in question, then it is patently obvious that these folks need to get a life. There was absolutely nothing controversial in that particular talk.