But; just WHY do the Catholics hate us?
etc, etc...
I don't think any Catholics hate the prots, maybe you are projecting. I know that I pity you, but certainly not hate, in spite of having been accused that by several members of this forum
80% of non-Catholics only care about finding a small enough pond to be a big fish in where others will humor them and not challenge their particular flavor of the Sola Yourselfa fantasy.
People who throw out a major portion of the Bible, claim to base what they believe on Scripture, but interpret Scripture in tens of thousands of different ways, they come across as nothing but lost and confused airhead hypocrites like Al Gore and the earth worshipers. They also adopt the same tactics as the earth worship crowd and the question, "why do they hate us" is a perfect example of the silly little games so many such folks love to play.
Snark, lies, and slanders, are what the Self Alone crowd try to pass off as "witnessing" to Catholics.
Maybe a different approach would have better results.