What you also seemingly don’t seem to understand is that it could be possible that someone like Pelosi, Coumo and others living in grave sin could have gone to confession,repented and became worthy to receive Eucharist.
Actually, it is RCs like you who promote an idea of unity and surety of doctrine in Catholicism that is deceptive, and your attempt at damage control does not refute the evidence against it. And the differences do not lack clarity, of which i can provide much more if needed.
Meanwhile until Pelosi, Coumo and others like them manifest repentance, or Rome formally excommunicates them, then it remains that you are stuck with such multitudes whom Rome treats as members in life and in death, unless you want to join one of the Catholic sects, who, paradoxically, are more conservative, like as the evangelical churches whom many Catholics join.
When I read your posts I get the impression of someone peeking in a window trying desperately to describe something they don't recognize and can't see clearly. The real problem is when you then try to argue with the homeowners about what is actually inside their house.
Do us all a favor and take some actual classes conducted by a certified catechist so that you can accurately portray Catholic teachings. I'm not expecting you to accept Catholic teachings, but at least you won't look so foolish trying establish the premise to any of your future arguments against her.
Until then, peace be with you