Yeah well I miss men being men. Three years ago when my son was a newborn I sat cross legged on the floor and fed him during Christmas eve mass. This year I did the same with my daughter. We attend mass every week yet have no place to sit during Christmas and Easter masses. I have yet to be offered a seat by an able bodied male.
I noticed the same at our church two Sundays ago. A mother with two young children stood along the side, and not one man offered his seat. I just returned to the church several months ago after an absence of many years, and I was surprised to see that happen. At the time I thought: If my sons and I had been seated ourselves - we were standing, too - I would’ve told them to stand up and offer her their seat.