You are very forceful in telling me in how I should deal with heretics and false teachers; are you not?
I have posted several scriptures showing how the Apostles and even Jesus Himself did not mince words, and I get told that we believers today should NOT do that.
Philippians 2:5 kjv
Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:
Angry, hateful and condemning people see an angry, hateful and condemning God. God is not of our making, we were created by Him in His image. He is a loving, forgiving and merciful God who commanded us to love one another. God does not condemn anyone to hell, hell is a consequence completely of our own doing that we must consciously choose.
I pray that you find peace and love in your heart that you may lead, not drive, others to Salvation.