Salvation.
Thank you. Seeing it presented like that actually made me throw up a little bit. That even this sinner can see is not just a sin, but a crime against rightness.
My wife and I have 4 children - would have been 5 but the 1st was an ectopic pregnancy and was terminated without discussion of the alternatives. We were both young and trusted doctors, at the time.
We have been blessed with 9 grandchildren (and counting) so in our family life, the question does not raise its head. My wife will not discuss the topic at all, and I shall not hurt her by raising it.
Hence I came here.
Prayers for you and your wife.