[Salvation]

** Knock off the attitude of accusing everyone of “ignorance, bigotry, and lying”. Try to imagine that just maybe they are NOT ignorant or bigoted or lying. I guarantee just that will change the atmosphere at once. **

I think this goes both ways. I have been called ignorant as I’m sure every Catholic on FR has been.

Nevertheless, you must admit that Catholics and Protestants or Fundamentalists post out of their own beliefs and to them, perhaps someone is lying or ignorant, etc.

It’s not for me or us to judge. Let God be the judge.

[boatbums]

I agree with you. I believe this advice should be for anyone who posts on the Religion Forum. I'm sure JimR did not set it up to be a battlefield where Conservatives bash other Conservatives over such a sensitive subject as religious beliefs. As far as the name calling, we probably have all been hit with it at some time or another and I doubt any one of us hasn't felt the urge to hit back. Rather than complain about the atmosphere, it is up to us to change it and it HAS to start with each one of us.

Granted there are a few that poison the well every time they post, but even they must be met with grace. No one person can change this forum, it has to be each one of us, individually. If we really are surrendered to Christ, then we can call on his strength to give us the ability to forgive - even without an apology - and to speak the truth with love, just as we are commanded to do. Sometimes, it may mean we ignore the insults and continue to speak about our thoughts on whatever subject is being discussed. It isn't always easy, I know that, but we will answer to God for every word we speak. He alone knows our hearts and he alone can judge justly. I hope you have a joyous Christmas.