Your analogy works only if you consider that the woman in your example really deserved the alternative, the torture
Although I really like the analogy, I can’t take credit for it. Also, how would you like to get a speeding ticket for speeding on a road where no signs were posted, and you find out the fine is having your eyes gouged out, your tongue splayed and raw torture for trillions upon trillions of years. Somehow that just seems a bit extreme.