Let’s make this a bit more simple.
If one can love something and also fear it, they can also love it and be apathetic about it.
An attraction towards something compared to an attraction away from something. Two opposite directions of attraction.
The opposite direction of attraction is not a void of attraction, but a revulsion.
The opposite charge of a positive ion is not a neutrally charged ion, but a negatively charged ion.
We might be attracted to certain qualities attributed to a person, while we fear other qualities also attributed to the same person, but they are different qualities being addressed attributed to the same person.
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom uses the word ‘fear’ in the sense of moral reverence, not repulsion or dread or terror. It is consistent with the love for God or perhaps better expressed as ‘humility’.
Not without violating the law of non-contradiction. Look's like we'll have to agree to disagree about this one.