Are you volunteering as the mind reader who provides this discernment on FR Religion forums?
I was responding to your statement "asking questions is so unloving." I was indicating that asking questions can express either love or derision. I made no claim regarding a personal ability to acutely discern between the two. But now that you mention it. . .I certainly do sense a rather derisive tone to your writings, but that would be a result of the obvious and not a manifestation, on my part, of an advanced ability to discern.