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To: dmz
Perhaps instead of yelling at me, you ought to listen to Dr. Laura. She stated it pretty clearly just about an hour ago.

If a wife is not there for her husband; he will find someone else who will be. Girlfriend, hooker, co-worker, stranger in a bar. That's a fact of life, like it or not. Elin opted to not be with her husband, a husband who is young, athletic, rich, famous and attractive (doesn't do a thing for me, but I'm a straight man).

If she won't be there for him, for love, companionship and sharing ... apparently you, and she both expect your husbands to accept his role as a possession and simply 'deal with it'. Welcome to planet Earth. Expect to have your heart broken.

I'm afraid that if you think this tract is what is going to happen in the 'real world'; then you are both gravely mistaken, and have set yourself up for a lot of heartache. Men have needs, and if you are unwilling to fulfill his needs - expect him to find someone else who will. This is exponentially true if he is rich, young, attractive and famous.

And yet, according to the Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy, approximately 50 percent married women and 60 percent of married men will have an extramarital affair at some time in their marriage.

Source

So, scream and shout all you like, but it is you (not I) that is refusing to accept reality.

65 posted on 04/20/2010 1:48:06 PM PDT by Hodar (Who needs laws .... when this "feels" so right?)
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To: Hodar

If she won’t be there for him, for love, companionship and sharing ... apparently you, and she both expect your husbands to accept his role as a possession and simply ‘deal with it’.

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LOL. I’m a husband married once, for over 20 years now. I guess you think that the only gender who finds Tiger 100% responsible for his behavior is the female of the species.

Wrong again. As you have been for much of the thread, IMHO.


67 posted on 04/20/2010 2:05:36 PM PDT by dmz
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To: Hodar

And yet, according to the Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy, approximately 50 percent married women and 60 percent of married men will have an extramarital affair at some time in their marriage.

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Your source for the info is really, really funny.

Lindsay Richardson
Info guru, Catalogs.com *

I submit and relent to the obviously unimpeachable source you have provided. Not.

* Lindsay is a freelance article writer and full time e-commerce writer.


68 posted on 04/20/2010 2:11:18 PM PDT by dmz
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To: Hodar
Elin opted to not be with her husband...

You know this...how?

74 posted on 04/20/2010 4:04:20 PM PDT by gogeo ("Every one has a right to be an idiot. He abuses the privilege!" Groucho Marx)
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