Are you sure you read the manual when you left Christianity and bought in to the pretty buildings? You seem to still be following historic Apostolic tradition, not Mormon ones.
I think this may not be uncommon among converts and the LDS have a vested intere$t in not telling you otherwise.
Saundra is a solid polygamy advocate...
in April 2008 during the arrest of thge polygamists in Texas, she was the leading voice in these threads...
Saundra didnt you say that you are a 5th wife ???