As to which event occurred first, of course God sought me and then I responded to his revelation of the truth. I still fail to see how God overrode the free will he endowed me with.
So tell me, what would be the point of Jesus commanding his disciples to "Go into all the world and preach the gospel to EVERY creature?" if God will only grant faith in a chosen few? Did he just want us to have some "busy work" to keep us occupied until he returned? And, Mr. Hitchens isn't dead yet, so you never know. :o)
Define free will. Are you suggesting that man can exercise his own Free Will to come to Christ if he is free from the compelling influence of God?
Are you a Pelagian? If not, then how is your position on Free Will any different from that of Pelagius?