And as I've already stated, many people would find it offensive to have 'last rites' administered by a priest from a church they heartily disagree with. From an ethical perspective, I see no difference between the two actions.
Some people see no difference in apples and oranges either, I guess. Having someone say a prayer over one is not in anyway the same as having them join a church! But hey, it takes all kinds, and if you can’t see the difference, I doubt anyone here is going to change your mind.
susie