Some people see no difference in apples and oranges either, I guess. Having someone say a prayer over one is not in anyway the same as having them join a church! But hey, it takes all kinds, and if you can’t see the difference, I doubt anyone here is going to change your mind.
susie
Specifically explain what the difference is the to individual if something is done to them against their will, whether it be a due to a policy of an organization or a choice of an individual.
Perhaps a better way to fame this debate would be to view it as a matter of respect.
Was Rev. Ashman disrespectful when he preformed last rites over those who died even though he did not know their beliefs or disbelief? NO, he had a genuine love and respect for those who were dead and dying and preformed a service that brought calm and comfort to the grieving and rescuers alike.
Are Mormons being disrespectful when they trace their genealogy and find their ancestors and and baptize them. NO, they have a love for those who came before them and only wish to see them go to heaven.
Are Mormons being disrespectful when they go through other church's records and pull random names to baptize into their faith? YES, in my mind this is merely grave robbing and they wish only to extend the rolls of their own church regardless of the wishes of the deceased or their families. It is this act that I believe we all find to be so reprehensible.
Note: I am neither Catholic nor Anglican and seldom do I post threads dealing with those outside of my own denomination because of the contention it creates. But I was so moved by this story that I felt compelled to post it. While our church does not believe in last rites, I would be thankful to God that he sent Rev. Ashman to pray over me or my family had we been in a similar situation.