I agree...with the Emerging Church, Mega-Churches, Charismatics, et al, the term “Evangelical” has lost its meaning, and its meaning. I highly recommend Nancy Pearcey’s book, Total Truth.
I’m a charismatic and darn glad of it. AND evangelical, AND born again, AND a child of the LIVING God, AND love to worship and praise Him, AND believe in all the gifts of the Spirit and the fruit of the Spirit, AND have His assurance that I will be with Him eternally. Careful who you judge here. There are Christians in every single one of those kinds of churches you seem to dislike so much—even in the Catholic Church!