On this we agree as well. Unless it is a valid Catholic mass, it is just crackers and grape juice. Your church could only have a symbol, not the Real Presence.
Our church HAS the real presence. The Holy Spirit is very evident in our services and in each one of us who go there. We will never agree on whether or not Jeus is present in your wafer but as long as He is present in our own lives, well, that’s what’s important.