Makes me wonder how many converts are out there in spite of RCIA rather than because of it!...
...I understand your concern on this matter, but my RCIA was quite positive, providing me with an excellent means of relating to the existing body of parishioners and those who came into the Church with me. I was so impressed I now work on the RCIA team doing whatever I can do to further the Church’s mission, and actually find it more rewarding than my own conversion.
That’s very good news — and good for you for helping!