Wrong about the United Methodist Church. While there is considerable discussion and rebellion, the church rule is the same as always; "Homosexuality is INCOMPATIBLE with Christian teaching."
This was evidenced twice last year, when a pastor admitted to her homosexual lifestyle and was removed from the pulpit, and then that removal was upheld by the Judicial Council.
Second, the Judicial Council ruled twice that a pastor could exclude an unrepentent homosexual from membership.
Finally, the last General Conference saw approx. 70% of the delegates vote AGAINST approving homosexuality. That vote has been getting higher every 4 years, not lower.
So, this author does not know our church.
The very fact that a vote is taken, every 4 years or whatever, seems somewhat problematic to me. It implies that the issue is not settled and that the terrain needs to be surveyed every 4 years in case opinion has shifted.
Thus, it leaves open the possibility that a future vote could turn out in favor.
Which is just fine by the homos. Rejection is simply approval delayed in their view of things.
Her? I think women in positions as pastors is also "incompatible with Christian teaching." Methodism is moving down the same road, although not as far along, as the Episcopal Church.
Seeing this, the grief John Wesley would be experiencing would shatter his heart.
The church I was a member of (Community of Christ) had (and continues to have) official statements regarding the standing of active homosexuals, specifically that they cannot be ordained, but, in real life, it is another story. They ordain them, they "marry" them, they put them in charge of youth programs. And when someone speaks against it, it is that person who receives corrective action.
I left that church a few years ago. It is appalling to see how far from the scriptures a church can depart and still call itself "Christian".
Professor Gagnon has an excellent Web site at http://www.robgagnon.net.
Your conference ought to act as the early church councils did. Take a position on an issue and hold to it, with anathemas. The problem is that Methodists love to straddle the fence. But the gays are not going to give up. Look at the ECUSA, which has tried the fudge tactic, and now sees that gays will rule but not submit.