Your conference ought to act as the early church councils did. Take a position on an issue and hold to it, with anathemas. The problem is that Methodists love to straddle the fence. But the gays are not going to give up. Look at the ECUSA, which has tried the fudge tactic, and now sees that gays will rule but not submit.
Go here. http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-religion/1653875/posts?page=23#23
Our articles of religion have not changed.
With which of our articles do you disagree?