[SirLinksalot]

Seems to me that one wife is the expectation for all.

I agree with you on every count. However, just for argument's sake, how do you respond to a "christian" ( note the quotes ) who says he is exempt from the Timothy instruction because he isn't interested in being an Elder, Minister or Deacon ?

Just interested in hearing your response.

[Gamecock]

Fair question that I answered in my head, but not here.

Others have made the case for one wife/one husband in the O.T. Here in the NT, where Christianity is moving into Pagan cultures where polygamy may be the norm, the guideline for Christian behavior is being laid out. Granted this is for church leaders, but the principle of one wife/one husband for everyone is an underlying there. Mature Christians, the type who led churches, are to have one spouse.

Elsewhere in the NT all are exhorted to grow into maturity. I see that as the point to refute those who don't aspire to become elders/deacons.