[eyespysomething]

I don't think piping down was the problem. And at that point, not spoiling the child wasn't an option. But you're right, just pick up the child, put her in the seat and strap them in. End of story.

[modendrite]

Many years ago when our children were young, we traveled a lot. The family rule was: "Sit down, shut up and keep your feet off the seats."

[Labyrinthos]

I don't think piping down was the problem.

Agreed, until you start wacking the kid on the rear in front of a hundred strangers. I guarantee that the kiddie poo will not accept the punishment in silence. I always explained to my kids in advance what was expected from them on an airplane, and I never had any problems whatsoever. And BTW, I have never, ever spanked my kids, and up to this point in time (they are 11 and 13), they have behaved like angels.