Posted on 02/06/2003 6:28:44 AM PST by Hemingway's Ghost
Accused wife-beating state cop Tim White and his wife led a hard-partying life of coke snorting and three-way sex that sent the respected trooper into a downward spiral of depression and violence, according to court records and affidavits obtained by the Herald.
In the aftermath of a harrowing ordeal at their Stoughton home last week during which White allegedly stuck a gun in his wife's mouth, Maura White told police a sordid tale of a nine-year marriage gone awry. She said her husband, a 16-year trooper and former department spokesman, had grown depressed over the past three years and was on anti-depressants.
According to an affidavit by Stoughton police Sgt. Robert J. Welch, White ``wanted to have sexual relationships with his wife and a third person.'' The couple went out on Saturday nights to clubs and bars where White would ``disappear'' and watch from afar as men tried to pick her up, Welch reported.
The fantasizing turned to reality last July when the couple picked up an employee of a Hub nightspot and brought him back to their home where the three had sex, Maura White, 41, told police.
In addition to the alleged sexual escapades, the couple partied at home and were using drugs, authorities allege.
Following his arrest, Tim White told doctors that his wife had been using cocaine for more than a year and that he had been snorting the drug for several months. White, who last year was assigned to the department's narcotics inspections unit, also tested positive for marijuana, records show.
The revelations come in the wake of a terrifying brawl in the couple's home last Monday, during which White, 39, allegedly stuck his gun in his mouth three times and his wife's mouth twice. He also slapped her to the ground, splitting her lip, kicked her in the stomach and pointed the gun at her buttocks.
White's attorney, Tim Burke, said the trooper should be in a private mental health facility, not a prison hospital.
``These are obviously matters of a personal nature which have a limited relationship to the matter at hand,'' Burke said of the sexual allegations.
Stoughton police Chief Manuel Cachopa said officers had been called to the couple's Southworth Court home three times before last week's incident.
On June 23, 2002, police responded there at 4 a.m. to ``remove an unwanted party,'' Cachopa said.
Police were again called to the house on Dec. 6, 2002, when White allegedly grabbed his wife and licked her face during an argument over taking the kids to school and shoveling snow. Police filed a complaint charging White but the case was continued on the condition the couple attend counseling.
A conference in the case was scheduled for April 8, but because of last week's incident, Stoughton District Court Clerk Donald Stapleton yesterday issued a complaint charging Tim White with assault and battery for the December incident.
Police also responded to a 911 hangup at the house on Super Bowl Sunday - the day before White allegedly terrorized his wife at gunpoint in the home.
Maura White has told police that the couple had a fight last July, during which her rib was broken. Court papers say police responded to the house but Cachopa said the department has no record of the incident.
The most recent brawl came after Maura White left with the children for the weekend. Court papers show she dropped off the girls, ages 4 and 6, at a friend's house on Sunday and stayed at the Dedham Holiday Inn.
The trooper also allegedly crawled into bed with the weapon with one of the girls. He was arrested after a tense, hour-long standoff.
Two abuse and neglect reports have been filed by the Department of Social Services. DSS spokesman Michael McCormack said the girls are staying with their mother and the case is under investigation.
White is being held without bail on attempted murder and assault charges at Bridgewater State Hospital. He has been suspended without pay.
Maggie Mulvihill and Dave Weber contributed to this report.
Why not? She was getting a double order of sausage, the inverse situation of Every Man's Fantasy. It definitely sounds like she was a little kinky herself . . . Janice Soprano springs to mind.
LOL!
the inverse situation of Every Man's Fantasy.
Not exactly---a man has only one sausage while a woman has multiple sausage warmers.
True that! I stand corrected.
Not exactly---a man has only one sausage while a woman has multiple sausage warmers.
LOL!!! You two quit it. I'm about to eat lunch here and dont want it on my computer screen. ;-)
I thought that domestic disturbances were a automatic go to jail now.
I was taught, in my younger days that they living in sin. Nowdays, they call it a alternate lifestyle. Try to soften up the language all you want but the rusults are still just as harsh.
I didn't say that. Liars can be Democrats as well. Drug using Democrats are total liars.
This can't be. Drugs don't make a BIT of difference in the life of one who indulges in them. After all, aren't we continually being told that all the REALLY successful people are dopers? ("Wall Street" is usually the example given).
And we ALL know that sex is just sex; it's a private matter, it's merely physical, no more "dangerous" than an addiction to sports on T.V.
I just don't get statements like this.
Don't be crazy. Of course drugs make a bit of difference in the lives of those who indulge in them.
Where does it say he's a libertarian? I missed that.
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