Bills could end child support payments from men who aren't biological dads

MLIVE.com ^ | The Associated Press

[Skywalk]

Pay her no mind, BB. Perhaps her psychoanalysis of you could be forgiven but in responses to other posters, she has taken no less a jovial mood. This is funny to her, you see. Apparently she has no understanding of the extreme evil involved in not only cheating on a man, but lying to him about the paternity of a child he has taken as his.

SHe distracts by talking about recouping all previous child support payments from the mother, when most of us are simply saying the mother should be punished CRIMINALLY and the father should have no further obligation to the child.

Apparently, it's of greater import to her to make fun of "cuckolded" husbands(I've not been married or cheated upon, so what is she talking about?) than to address a very serious issue in our culture and legal system.

As Paulie Walnuts described Minn Matrone, "She's a malignant c--t."

[Skywalk]

Oh, and you speak of animus. Are we wrong to have animus towards Al Qaeda or Nazis or Communists? We can identify the whys and whats of their evil, but in the end we also have great anger or hatred towards them. Is this wrong?

In many ways, cheating and then passing another man's child off to someone you claimed to love and cheris is a greater sin than killing strangers who don't share your beliefs.

[nicmarlo]

"Give it to I" would cause heads to turn.

I think in an English class, one may assume "Give it to I" would cause heads to roll. : )

[jimkress]

This is just another form of prostitution. Normally prostitutes get their money up front. In these cases the postitutes wait until after child birth.

[BuddhaBoy]

I saw BB's first thread and thought, "What, again?" but decided to Let it Be. Even when I encountered his plans to start a new site called "Dontmarryher.com". Then another thread! Curiosity beckoned. Just what inspires such energy?

Listen, you busy-body, it was all the apparent interest in this subject on Free Republic that inspired me to create a web site, not the other way around. I decided after all the flames and anger my comments generated, that perhaps I had come across a great idea for a discussion forum. When the site is finished, and you are over your snide remarks and accusations, I hope that you will go there and learn something.

[BuddhaBoy]

You are right, but that woman has a personal agenda against me, which is fine, but stupid all the same. Somehow, my comments offend her, but I think she is just an attention-whore, purposly flaming me because it is the only way she gets paid any attention to. I couldnt care less, but I wont let her mischaracterize my motives.

[BuddhaBoy]

Several years later, after he had married someone else and had a family of his own, he got hit for child support payments by the state. DNA tests proved he was not the father but it was to late. State law had already declared him the father and responsible for supporting the child. He was forced to take money from his own family and pay for a child that was no relation to him.

A horror story that every fertile man is in danger of reliving. It's a crime.

[John D]

Good point. I have another. Through their argument the person that is proven to be innocent of a crime through DNA, should be required to stay in prison. Somebody has to pay for the crime.

[Myrddin]

The DA's office has people assigned to handle claims of mistaken identity. The person that handled my claim was very thorough and professional. It took 6 weeks because she had 1000 pending cases to investigate.

I provided detailed identification, pictures, job history, residence history. I even tracked down the real respondant using web searches and a few carefully worded phone calls. The custodial mom verified that I was not her ex-husband. I received a letter of apology from the DA's office.

An additional pain in the experience was that I had just received a layoff notice via FedEx overnight. I barely had that envelope opened when the postman brought the two registered letters that turned out to be lawsuits. It was a truly wonderful day :-(

[monday]

"I prefer an all-or-nothing approach. If the man does not want to undertake any financial responsibility for the child, then he should not have any paternal rights."

What about this? Make support payments at say $4-5 per hour of custody in his care? Would be a lot better than what many men get now. No visitation rights but still have to pay child support.

[monday]

"But you do clutter up the boards with this pony. Why don't you explain why you like to make it do tricks?"

Because it entertains people like you. You wouldn't be here otherwise.

[monday]

"This is just another form of prostitution. "

Except prostitutes are honest.

[AnnaZ]

"We don't want to illegitimize a whole class of children, and we don't want to impoverish a whole class of children," Stowe said. "We have to look at the greater good."

 

Easy there, Comrade Stowe.

 

 

But, yikes! Isn't this quote, and position, completely illustrative of the Left as a whole? The legislation of prevarication and the blind trampling of individuals on the road to a mythical brotherhood based on mandatory affiliation.

 

(Not, of course, like it hasn't been attempted before...)

[jimkress]

BUMP!

[knak]

but I wont let her mischaracterize my motives.

Please don't, she's tried everything she can too. Obviously she's not winning. Just breeding more contempt for her own kind. I gave up on her hours ago. Her and her viniagrette!

[dcwusmc]

BUMP for JUSTICE

[BuddhaBoy]

I'll second a justice bump.

[TigersEye]

Good thread. I wasn't even aware that this legal phenomena existed. It stinks! Don't let the harpies get you down. ; )

[childlessmother]

4 years ago my husband was in another country when his brother got a girl pregnant and the when the child was born the mother forged his signiture on a paper saying that he took the baby as his. Now 200 dollars gets taken out of his check each week for a kid he has never seen and did not sign the papers for i think the bill should be passed because it is not right for us to pay because she lied.