Ok... I have a true story to tell...
Years ago my hubby and I were having a 'marital discussion' and I 'lovingly whispered': "Don't tell me what to do! I'm an independent woman of the 90s!"
A short time later, I'm in the laundry room and let out a hair-raising scream. Hubby comes running. "What's wrong???"
Me: "A spider! Kill it!!!"
Hubby (laughing): "You're an independent woman of the 90s - YOU kill it!" (More laughter)
Me (hiding behind him): "Honnnnnnnnney, pleeeeeeeeeeease kill it!"
Hubby kills the big, ugly, hairy, scary spider and laughs some more at my 'independence'! hahahahahahahaha