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Everything except the laws of the universe constantly changes but change is not always a good thing. If you marry a girl thinking she is perfect currently then the probability is of her changeing for the worse and not for the better.

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Change isn't always for the better. Again that's life. See none of your complaints about marriage, similar to BhuddaWhine's, are unique to marriage. I've never met anyone that's perfect, ever. Anybody waiting for the perfect mate will die alone. If there were perfect mates relationships wouldn't require effort. All relationships require effort, all of life requires effort.